Archive for July, 2006

pepsi boat

Monday, July 31st, 2006

so i finally got around to downloading pictures off my camera and posting them

here are some pictures of our pepsi boat in all its awesomeness… in the living room:

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more: http://www.whodamonkey.com/photos/album/72157594217126899/Pepsi_Boat.html

the boat was approximately 6.5′ long, composed almost entirely out of nearly 300 pepsi products. we only used one beam for the base, that thin board for the top, and that plastic container for the seat. otherwise, it was ALL pepsi products!

and it was awesome at floating!! even with bryan sitting on it, it barely sank into the water (part of the problem)… we ended up filling up all the bottles with water and slashing holes in the cans in an attempt to lower the boat a bit to no success. our only problem was it was too unbalanced for anyone to sit on it for more than 2 strokes :(

foiled by another online form!!!!!

Friday, July 28th, 2006

so last year, i attempted to buy my sister a dell laptop on one of their crazy sales… only to be foiled by an online form that i hit submit for… got a confirmation page for… only to have the order not go through!

yesterday, tina informed of a coupon from fye that was supposed to be 10% off but was ringing up as $10 off! animaniacs was just released so i jumped at the chance to get vol 1 for 25.99. i entered the code, filled out my credit card etc. etc., and for a total of $30.something cents, i thought i purchased animaniacs, vol 1.

AGAIN… the online form foiled me! expecting a shipping confirmation any time now, i finally went back in to see what was going on… no record of the order again!!! and now, the coupon code has been fixed to correctly give 10% off!

vexing!!!

an unsatisfying evening

Friday, July 28th, 2006

unsatisfying event 1
cable guy came to install the cable hookup in my room. he arrived on time (FOR ONCE!), but everything proceeded to go downhill from there. he hooked up the cable pretty quickly, but when i went to test it, it was all staticky. looked around the room for a long time because he insisted there was another cable box besides the one in talida’s closet because the cable behind my wall was coming from above (not below, where her closet is). after telling him the other cable guys who came and installed our cable the first time couldn’t find any other, he went back to talida’s closet and using his “beepy tool,” found that my cable did in fact lead to the same cable box but was somehow pushed below the opening of the cable box so he missed it the first time.

after he hooked it up, he asked me to check if the other TVs were ok. they were, but mine was complete static because he had disconnected my cable to connect his diagnostic tools. when i told him this, he said “oh go ahead and take that off and test your cable.” alright…. so i went to my box thinking perhaps i just needed to connect my cable to the bracket… no, the bracket wasn’t even connected to the wall. i had to remove his diagnostic tools, connect the 2 wires to my bracket (i worried that i would reverse positive and negative wires or something like that! are there even positive/negative wires in cable?!), then connect my cable to the wall bracket and then to the TV.

but it all worked. i hadn’t connected the wall bracket to the wall because i wasn’t sure whether i had done everything properly and whether he needed to do anything else? when he came up to check if everything was working, i expected him to take a look at the wall and to reattach the wall bracket to the wall after everything was ok-ed. instead, he told me “i’m running late now since this took so long so you’re going to need to reattach the bracket to the wall.” uh… cuse me?? isn’t it YOUR job to install my cable, not mine??? don’t you want to verify everything is correct?! is it my fault you couldn’t find the cable hookup? i mean, you’re the expert not me!!!

whatever. and i just noticed, he left some wire on my bed. thanks!

unsatisfying event 2
i lost 2 games of settlers but i was oh so close! the first time, i had like 8 points before tina finally won. the 2nd time, i needed a 3 (don’t laugh! 3s were rolled more than some of the other common numbers and was the only reason tina and i were close to winning) and a 4 to be rolled to get my 10th point to win. the 4 was rolled, but because tina also got cards (6 sheep!!) and she went right before me, she won. (i tried rolling right afterwards to see what might have been… i got a 12 and a 10 before i finally got the 3 i needed to win.

unsatisfying event 3
bang sucks now. the way we’ve been playing (all 7 roles are played, with the extra roles coming into the game as players are killed off) leaves a lot of scenarios to chance… because u don’t know what roles will come out in what order, there’s a possibility that it could be 1 sheriff against 3 outlaws or 1 sheriff and 2 vices against 1 outlaw. tonight we had some weird scenario where the same person got killed off all 4 times. and somehow, the team pairings weren’t varied either. something was terribly wrong… like all the possible bad scenarios all happened tonight :( really detracted from the game and i dunno if i’d want to play ever again!

six weird habits/things about me

Thursday, July 27th, 2006

well i got tagged by ann awhile ago… and since this week just seems to be dragging, perhaps i’ll do this…

six weird habits/things about me
The writer will create a blog with the “6 weird things/habits about yourself.” People who get tagged will have to post a blog of their own telling 6 weird things/habits about themselves. Make sure to post this rule clearly! At the end of your 6 weird things/habits, you need to choose 6 people that you would like to be tagged and list their names. Don’t forget to leave a comment that says “You are Tagged!” in their comments and tell them to read yours for instructions on how to proceed! Have fun and NO TAGBACKS!!!!

1. even though i’m always starved in the morning, i can’t eat breakfast. it makes my stomach upset.
2. i move around in my sleep a lot; some times to the point that i pull a “pippi longstocking” and end up with my feet on the pillow. a few people have actually seen me when i’ve done this. they say i actually sit up in bed, change directions, and lie back down.
3. little known fact (i guess it’s not weird exactly, but might be to those who know me): i can be organized and scheduled. tho i may be absentminded and forget where i put something momentarily, things that i purposefully put somewhere (in other words, organize), i know exactly where they are. similarly, i am actually scheduled. maybe not compulsively like chubacca, but i do in fact have a schedule. and certain people (only a few have experienced it) may be able to attest- when i’m not on schedule and need to be, i actually get anal about it… though that doesn’t happen too often.
4. i keep the clocks in my room 20 minutes fast. i keep the clock in my car 3 minutes fast. i keep the time on my ipod 5 minutes fast.
5. i get obsessed with cute, repetitive games. (orisinal games!) i’ve been late to, heck… missed entire meetings because of these games. i may have nearly flunked out of college, but duuude, i had 9 of the top 10 cranky crabs score at one point!!
6. i have this habit of getting startled/hiding when i hear the doorbell ring. it doesn’t matter if it’s not my house and i’m a guest. i’ll shudder a little and look for a hiding place. i attribute this to when i was growing up and staying home alone after school. my mom told my sister and i never to answer the door if she wasn’t home. but because of the way our house was, you could see (and often hear) the people inside so we’d have to hide whenever we heard the bell! it’s gotten better now… but i still somewhat react to doorbells. interestingly, knocks mean nothing…i react only to doorbells.

i’m just gonna tag people in this post… and do without the “You are Tagged!” comments. i’m sure you all really cared. at least this way, i give the tag-ee an excuse to not do this post. (“but i never knew you tagged me”) i tag: jie, both smallhandedfreaks, talida, jason, and psycho.

grown up decorations

Thursday, July 27th, 2006

in my quest to become a grown-up, i moved a bunch of my stuff back home to my parents’ house. gone are the complete adventures of curious george (i had one copy here in VA and one copy in MD… yes, i had 2 copies of the same book; both given to me by other people), the mini curious george lunch box (to go along with the 2 regular size lunch boxes already in MD), one curious george flashlight (i am keeping the other one here in VA just in case), numerous stuffed animals/monkeys, and a few other things deemed too childish for me now. i am, after all, twenty-four. i forgot to bring back a few other things, but the next trip home will see munch, the big blue monkey, going back to MD along with the curious george calendar pictures that once plastered my wall at my first apartment, my wall-o-monkey.

i’m grown-up now. i need grown-up decorations. i started to peruse allposters.com for poster ideas and i realized, shoot! i still have the taste of a 12 year old. (i can blame all of you for my excessive curious george paraphernalia, but i picked my new shower curtains entirely on my own. i just couldn’t resist.) really couldn’t find any “grown-up” posters that i really liked. i sort of regret not buying some posters i saw while at the reston festival a couple of weeks back… there were some really awesome landscape photographs and this hilarious series of paintings done by someone where 2 bathrobes were doing every day things… my favorites were 2 bathrobes enjoying breakfast and 2 bathrobes pedaling a tandem bike. hehehe

i finally found some prints i really like, but they cost so much! are grown-up decorations always so costly!? i think it’ll cost me ~$40 for each print and frame that i want to get… and i was looking at a couple of them. anyone know a cheaper alternative to allposters.com or to getting frames for posters/prints?

man, and my old curious george decorations were pretty much free! (old curious george calendars given to me by other people) being a grown-up sure is expensive!

restrooms – the most awkward place

Tuesday, July 25th, 2006

i hate walking into a public restroom when someone else is already there. there’s so many awkward moments that result from it… it’s best if the restroom is just one of those one room dealios.

awkward moment #1
you open the door to the bathroom. no matter how gentle you do it, you’re going to startle the other person. they’ll likely turn around and glance at you for a second. but a second is all they need! now they know what you look like. if you’re someone who tries to visit other floors’ restrooms at the office to avoid awkwardness between coworkers you know, it can still be quite awkward because the person inevitably will figure out you don’t sit on the floor (“hrm… i only see her in the restroom”) and just come to the floor to use the restroom.

ackward moment #2
ok, so the person’s gone back to washing/drying their hands. you rush into a stall, trying to avoid more awkwardness (or worse yet, an awkward conversation in the restroom!). but in your haste, you forget to look ahead! now, i’m not talking about walking into an unflushed toilet stall or a dirty one… because as nasty as that is, you can easily walk out of that stall to use another. the nastiness you encounter is a reasonable excuse for switching stalls. no… in your haste, you forgot to look for choppy seas!!! this is the scenario where the toilet bowl water hasn’t had time to settle from its last flush, so it’s still refilling. this means you’ve just walked into the stall that the person outside washing their hands just vacated. what do you do?! you can’t walk out of the perfectly useable stall, that’d be an insult to the other person! but now you have to deal with a warm toilet seat and the aroma freshly flushed toilets give (even freshly flushed toilets give off a smell. it’s not so much a nasty smell… it’s more a smell of water and metal… it’s difficult to describe, but i’m sure you’ve smelled it.)

awkward moment #3
this one, hopefully, is an occassional moment. say you walk into the restroom just as the other person is finishing up. and then they leave. without washing their hands. nasty!! can you ever look at that person the same way anymore??

then there’s the awkwardness when you’re the one leaving the restroom…

dirty, unflushed toilet? wasn’t me!! it was there when i got here!
that stench? wasn’t me!! it was there when i got here!

or using the napkin to hold the restroom door… is that normal? will the person think you’re OCD? it’s just a matter of being sanitary…

Spam Karma 2: 2 thumbs up!

Monday, July 24th, 2006

if you look down at the bottom of this page, there’s a little message about 679 (as of the time of this post) spam comments that have been blocked by Spam Karma 2. i gotta say, spam karma 2 is very effective. wordpress is supposed to have a bit of spam protection (isn’t it? i thought it was but what do i know?), but i still got an insane amount of spam comments.

now with spam karma, only real comments come in! and it never filters the real comments to spam.

i vaguely remember learning about spam filtering in school. in between naps and computer games, i think i remember learning about something about giving each message a score based on whether it had characteristics of spam or whatever. i think that’s how spam karma works. at least that’s what i’m guessing….

in any case, i like spam karma. it’s quite effective. anyone out there also experiencing spam comments (the heck are you able to spam everything now?!), you should use it! :)

taco bell = bad

Thursday, July 20th, 2006

i am no longer a fan of taco bell.

it could’ve been the heat (our AC was broken during the past heat wave). it could’ve just been a coincidence.

but i won’t be having taco bell in a long time anymore. even if it wasn’t because of taco bell, it was certainly taco bell coming out and having taco bell travel in me in the reverse direction, i’m not too keen on having it go down the proper direction anymore either.

that was the first time i threw up junks from being sick since 3rd grade when i threw up on shelly sach’s old driveway when i got pneumonia.

A Medical Crisis of Conscience, Faith Drives Some To Refuse Patients Medication or Care

Monday, July 17th, 2006

just read an interesting article on washingtonpost.com

some doctors and nurses apparently are refusing treatment/medicine to patients if it conflicts with their own personal beliefs… i.e refusing to prescribe the morning-after bill, refusing to prescribe viagra to single men, etc. etc.

i think i’m of the opinion that as doctors/nurses, if there is nothing illegal about prescribe a treatment/medicine (so no marijuana) and it doesn’t harm the patient, the doctor/nurse should do it regardless of their own personal beliefs. their own personal beliefs may not be that of their patients and you can’t force your own beliefs onto someone else.

with regards to the person’s argument of “I could not live with myself if it did it. I answer to God first and foremost.” i want to say that God doesn’t expect you to be responsible for everyone else’s behavior. i understand her argument that by performing the abortion/prescribing the drug may go against her beliefs, but she’s also not the one DOing it exactly… if the patient tells her to perform the procedure/prescribe the drug, shouldn’t that be the patient’s own decision and whatever consequences arise from that decision be entirely on the patient? i almost want to take this to the extreme and say, if it’s that big of a problem, the person should get out of the position of having to make that decision.

but of course using the argument that whoever told you to do something is the only party responsible for the consequences, all those hitmen accused of killing someone should be set free…

ahh, i’m such a flip flopper. curious as to what everyone else thinks of this… particularly those in the medical profession. what would you do?

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A Medical Crisis of Conscience
Faith Drives Some To Refuse Patients Medication or Care

By Rob Stein
Washington Post Staff Writer
Sunday, July 16, 2006; Page A01

In Chicago, an ambulance driver refused to transport a patient for an abortion. In California, fertility specialists rebuffed a gay woman seeking artificial insemination. In Texas, a pharmacist turned away a rape victim seeking the morning-after pill.

Around the United States, health workers and patients are clashing when providers balk at giving care that they feel violates their beliefs, sparking an intense, complex and often bitter debate over religious freedom vs. patients’ rights.

Legal and political battles have followed. Patients are suing and filing complaints after being spurned. Workers are charging religious discrimination after being disciplined or fired. Congress and more than a dozen states are considering laws to compel workers to provide care — or, conversely, to shield them from punishment.

Proponents of a “right of conscience” for health workers argue that there is nothing more American than protecting citizens from being forced to violate their moral and religious values. Patient advocates and others point to a deep tradition in medicine of healers having an ethical and professional responsibility to put patients first.

The issue is driven by the rise in religious expression and its political prominence in the United States, and by medicine’s push into controversial new areas. And it is likely to intensify as doctors start using embryonic stem cells to treat disease, as more states legalize physician-assisted suicide and as other wrenching issues emerge.

“What constitutes an ethical right of conscience in medicine, and what are the limits?” asked Nancy Berlinger of the Hastings Center, a bioethics think tank. “This keeps getting harder and harder for us.”

For Debra Shipley, her duties as a nurse began to conflict with her Christian faith when the county health clinic where she worked near Memphis required she dispense the morning-after pill.

“I felt like my religious liberties were being violated,” said Shipley, 49, of Atoka, Tenn. “I could not live with myself if it did it. I answer to God first and foremost.”

But Paige Gerson, 37, of Leawood, Kan., believes doctors and nurses should never let their personal values interfere with patient care. Her doctor refused to give her the morning-after pill, citing religious objections.

“I was incredibly angry and just scared to death,” Gerson said. “I think it’s absolutely wrong to impose your religious beliefs on someone else.”

The debate over the right of conscience in health care is far from new. After the 1973 Roe v. Wade decision, many states passed laws protecting doctors and nurses who did not want to perform abortions. Oregon’s 1994 legalization of physician-assisted suicide lets doctors and nurses decline to participate.

The clash resurfaced with antiabortion pharmacists refusing to fill prescriptions for the morning-after pill. But recent interviews with dozens of health-care workers, patients, advocates, ethicists, legal experts and religious and medical authorities make it clear that the issue is far broader. Many health-care workers are asserting a right of conscience in many settings.

“This issue is the San Andreas Fault of our culture,” said Gene Rudd of the Christian Medical & Dental Associations. “How we decide this is going to have a long-lasting impact on our society.”

Some anesthesiologists refuse to assist in sterilization procedures. Respiratory therapists sometimes object to removing ventilators from terminally ill patients. Gynecologists around the country may decline to prescribe birth control pills. Some doctors reject requests for Viagra from unmarried men.

The conscience debate has a flip side: Some health workers chafe at requests to take extraordinary measures for terminally ill patients or object to Catholic hospitals’ bans on abortions, sterilizations and the morning-after pill.

The issue has become acute for some religious workers, especially devout Christians, for whom the concept of “conscience” plays a particularly prominent role. One development after another has challenged their values: treatments using fetal tissue; physician-assisted suicide; the RU-486 abortion pill; the morning-after pill; fertility clinics discarding thousands of excess embryos; and now a looming wave of therapies derived from embryonic stem cells.

“Medicine today is being asked to do all sorts of things that are in conflict with its fundamental healing traditions,” said William B. Hurlbut of Stanford University, a member of the President’s Council on Bioethics.

The controversy is part of the larger struggle over religion’s place in society, mirroring in some ways the fight over teaching alternatives to evolution in schools.

“What the conscience debate, the euthanasia debate, the stem cell debate and the evolution debate all have in common is this collision between a religiously inspired view of life and state regulation,” said John C. Green of the Pew Forum on Religion & Public Life, a nonprofit research center.

The issue of refusals in medicine has mostly percolated quietly. Many conflicts are settled informally. Some health-care workers avoid or transfer out of jobs that present moral quandaries. When a conflict arises, co-workers typically step in. Patients often never know it happened.

But confrontations do occur when, for example, hospitals or clinics are unable or unwilling to accommodate a worker’s objections. Or an employee refuses to refer patients elsewhere, or is on duty alone or gets drafted to fill in for someone else. Problems sometimes arise after a worker undergoes a religious awakening.

In response, hospitals and other facilities, along with medical groups including the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists and the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, are crafting policies to defuse potentially explosive run-ins. Lawyers, ethicists and advocates are sparring over how to balance the conflicting rights.

“Freedom of conscience has been central to our political notions since even before the United States existed,” said Loren Lomasky, a philosophy professor at the University of Virginia. “People should not be forced into doing things that they find morally odious.”

Lomasky and others liken religious objections to abortion, sterilization, and euthanasia to conscientious objections to the Vietnam War and the recent refusal of anesthesiologists in California to participate in executions.

“Why is it that some people would have no compunction in forcing a doctor to participate in an abortion, but if it’s painful death by lethal injection, they suddenly find religion?” asked Lynn D. Wardle of Brigham Young University’s J. Reuben Clark Law School.

Some argue that health workers should not even be required to refer patients elsewhere for care they find objectionable.

“Think about slavery,” said physician William Toffler of the Oregon Health and Science University in Portland. “I am a blacksmith and a slave owner asks me to repair the shackles of a slave. Should I have to say, ‘I can’t do it but there’s a blacksmith down the road who will?’ ”

Others say that professional responsibility trumps personal belief.

“As soon as you become a licensed professional, you take on certain obligations to act like a professional, which means your patients come first,” said R. Alta Charo, a bioethicist and lawyer at the University of Wisconsin at Madison. “You are not supposed to use your professional status as a vehicle for cultural conquest.”

Religious objections can be dangerous in emergencies and when health workers refuse to refer patients or inform them about other options, especially in poor or rural areas where there are fewer options.

“It’s a very disturbing trend,” said Lourdes Rivera of the National Health Law Program, a nonprofit patient advocacy group.

Doctors, nurses and other health-care workers who cannot find a way to fulfill their responsibilities should chose other professions, some say.

“If your religious orientation is such that you can’t discharge your professional responsibilities, then you shouldn’t take on those responsibilities in the first place,” said Ken Kipnis, a philosophy professor at the University of Hawaii at Manoa. “You should find other work.”

Others are less sure where to draw the line.

“The bottom line is, this is a vexed question,” said John A. Robertson of the University of Texas School of Law. “There’s not some clear way through this thicket yet.”

from http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/07/15/AR2006071500846.html

so hot!

Monday, July 17th, 2006

a heat wave has hit the DC area. there’s heat advisories until some time mid week, they’re warning that the heat index may make it feel like it’s above 100…

the past few days:
7.15.06 – 90 degrees, with a high humidity of 100, average humidity for the day at 80
7.16.06 – 92 degrees, with a high humidity of 81, average humidity for the day at 59

the forecast for the next few days:
7.17.06 – 97 degrees
7.18.06 – 98 degrees
7.19.06 – 91 degrees

we just moved to our new apartment where the A/C was broken. it’s scheduled to be fixed on wednesday. ahhh! i can’t even sit without sweating